Types Of Friendships

We often don’t look at our friendships when we think of relationships. It’s worthy of note to remember that a friendship is indeed a relationship. It can be fun and exciting to make different kinds of friendships. Friendships can improve our mental health.

Sometimes when we meet someone, we know that we’ll be good friends. Other times, it can take a while for the friendship to develop. There are many different kinds of friendship. Each friendship you have will fall into one of at least four categories.

Given time, a friendship in one category may become better. Occasionally, we will outgrow a friendship. This may be due to our physical location or a change in the circumstances of one of our friends.

The Four Categories Of Friendships

Acquaintances

Typically, acquaintances are friends we casually meet in our work environment or in passing. We spend time with these friends while we’re at work or maybe in the course of the day while we’re doing our regular job.

Recognizing the difference between an acquaintance and a good friend is important. An acquaintance may not consider you to be friends but rather work partners or just co-workers. Calling them your friends may not be as accurate as calling them an acquaintance.

In the world of relationships. A lot of misunderstandings can come from identifying an acquaintance as a true friend. If you’re striving to keep your private life private, you won’t be sharing personal information in deep detail with your acquaintances.

Identifying a person as a friend when they’re actually an acquaintance can also cause problems in other areas of life, such as intimate relationships where one partner misunderstands the actual nature of the friendship.

Social Friendships

These are the people in your social circle. You may have friends at school or at church that you interact with on a frequent basis. Often, these friends are superficial. They’re trying to keep up the appearance that all is well in their life.

These are the friends that you sit next to in class. You may also sit beside them in church or youth groups. You may also attend special events with this group of friends. You likely won’t hear much of what is going on in their life unless you develop the social friendship deeper into an intimate one.

These friends may come and go throughout your lifetime. You may outgrow these friends, or they may outgrow your friendship. Everyone makes different choices in life when they get out of school or come of age, and these choices and decisions may greatly affect our friendships.

Close Intimate Friendships

These are the friendships that are on equal footing. Both of the friends give and take from one another equally. These friends know each other well. They know their friends’ likes and dislikes. Favorite foods, colors, and cars relate well to one another.

These friends may have met in childhood, school, or other settings. These friendships have often stood the test of time. When these friends get together, it’s as if no time has ever passed. They’re close and trust one another implicitly.

Frequently, an intimate friendship will develop into the epitome of friends. They have plenty of foundation to stand on and a wealth of knowledge of one another. Many strong marriages are built upon these kinds of friendships.

Friends of this nature will hold one another accountable. They will insist on the truth and know when someone is lying. This is a deep friendship. It’s been nurtured and grounded in many shared life experiences.

Epitome Of Friends

The Epitome of friends are the friends that are there for both good times and bad. These are the friendships that you may not get together every day or every week, but when you do get together, you pick up right where you left off as if no time has passed.

These are the people that you call your best friends. These are the friendships that withstand the test of time. In this type of friendship, you will frequently share every little detail of your life. Such friendships are kept close to the heart and mean a lot to both of the friends.

This could be a childhood friend, a friend who has been through a trauma with you, a sibling, or even a cousin who has grown up with you. It’s important to note that, on occasion, these friendships are developed over the years; they don’t usually ‘just happen’ unless there are specific circumstances.

These are the best possible examples of a true friendship. This type of friend stays connected, even if there are thousands of miles between them, even if a year or more has passed; this is the kind of friend that ‘knows’ when something is off and will call you.

Exploring The Essence Of Friendships

Take a moment and review your life. How important have friendships been to you over the years? How many friendships have you had in your lifetime? What do you remember most about your best friendships? How can you apply that to your life today?

These four tips can help you to make the best decisions when it comes to friendships.

• Be with those friends who don’t try to change you and who help you be yourself. Surround yourself with like-minded people.
• Be with those who cheer you on and believe in your dreams. Friends who will stand you back up if you fall.
• Choose friends who make you better, not bitter. Insulate yourself with positivity.
• Choose friends who will hold you accountable. You want people in your life who believe in you and hold you to a higher standard. These are your true friends who won’t be afraid to tell you that you’re in the wrong.

Keep in mind that not only do you need these kinds of people in your life, but you also need to be a good friend to others and be that person in their life. A good friendship is a give-and-take friendship. You’re both giving and both taking from one another in a good way.

Sincerity will always shine through in friendships. Choose your friends wisely and focus on being the kind of friend to others that you want them to be to you. How do you choose your friends?